Relationship Attraction: How To Stop Manifesting An Emotionally Unavailable Guy!
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes…
I manifested emotionally incapable lovers, men who were out of state, or were always traveling. Even though my father was emotionally unavailable, I figured that since I consciously knew it, I would consciously attract love relationships with men that wanted a real relationship. Even up to the last relationship I had prior to achieving my relationship breakthrough, the person I was in a relationship with wouldn’t commit.
I understood the Law of Attraction principles and thought I was functioning well implementing the principles. However, there was a part that was continuously out of place.
As a Law of Attraction Coach, I am very clear in saying that if you truly want to have a relationship that causes your heart to soar – not just any kind of relationship – but a truly amazing, abundant, love partnership – it takes a special kind of honed desire.
Most of us who are interested in understanding the Law of Attraction and how it will work for them in their lives are actually posing, “What do I have to change? Is there something that I can do differently? What I’ve been doing isn’t going anywhere.” You can attract Law of Attraction Relationships right now and sky-rocket your level of positive potential!
So you have been asking, and wanting a perfect, committed love relationship and you want to understand, where is he? Why do I continue to manifest the wrong guy?
Let’s review some Law of Attraction essentials.
When trying to understand the Law of Attraction, we have established that our cosmos is a vibrational Universe – that all things are composed of energy. This energy is in continuous motion and is always expanding and is humming vibration at all times. All things ARE energy. Your thoughts, your shirt, solar systems, mosquitoes… everything. The contents of your mind are energy and have the power to manifest. Your thoughts are creating if you understand the Law of Attraction or not.
The question is, “What kinds of things are you thinking? What quality do your thoughts have? Are you giving attention to your desire from a point of expectation or a place of lack?
By focused desire I’m referring to the kind of want that is focused unwaveringly on what you want from the point of view of already having what it is you’re trying to manifest, instead of being focused in opposition to what you want.
As we know, the Law of Attraction teaches “what you focus your attention on will manifest increasingly in your life experience. So it’s extremely important to understand whether you are seeking from a perspective of lacking what you want or from a point of already having it.
Desiring from the perspective of lacking (that is, looking at the lack of it as in ‘Why isn’t it here yet?’) puts you in a mode of resistance. Better said, the Universe vibrationally mirrors your thoughts, expectations, and your beliefs about your mind – you are emitting a dominant vibration about love – with situations and people that are paired with your beliefs.
I just got off the phone with a woman in my Magnetic Attraction Program. She wants to know why her friend who is very negative and prone to complaining just got engaged, while she stays single and lonely. Can you hear it? Can you guess why? Does this seem like something you would say? Number 1 keep your mind on your vibration. What another is doing is not any of your concern. If you’re comparing what’s out there to what is happening with you, you’ll be doomed every single time. Personal creation is something you do inside. Think and feel your way to what you want. Secondly, this woman has her attention honed on staying single and lonely. The universe can simply respond to that! The Universe says: “Oh, Mary wants more of the single and lonely experience. We love her so much and would never go against her free will. Let’s give her more of what she’s wanting”.
The program that I was running was “I am playing it safe and always hold a little back. This way if my relationship goes sour, I can simply escape without too much hurt”.
If you’re single and wanting lasting love, ask yourself: “What’s my dominant vibration or limited belief about it being possible for me?” Surface up those blockages, think and feel yourself to a new feeling place. You can shift your point of attraction instantly. Now all you have to do is continue there and watch the result.
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